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The 5 Biggest Money Mistakes Keeping You in Debt

By Andrew Yoder • January 20, 2026

The 5 Biggest Money Mistakes Keeping You in Debt (And the Simple Steps to Break Free) If you’re stuck living paycheck to paycheck, it probably doesn’t feel like you’re making bad decisions. Most people I work with are responsible, hardworking, and trying to do the right thing. They pay their bills. They avoid unnecessary purchases. They feel the pressure—but they don’t see a clear way out. What makes this so frustrating is that it often feels like no matter how hard you try, nothing really changes. You work, you pay bills, you repeat the cycle. And over time, that cycle can start to feel normal—even permanent. That’s because debt usually isn’t caused by one big mistake. It’s caused by a handful of small, common patterns that quietly keep people stuck. Let’s break those patterns down and talk about how to move forward. 1. Treating Minimum Payments Like Progress This is one of the easiest traps to fall into—and one of the most deceptive. When you’re making minimum payments, it feels like you’re being responsible. The bills are paid. Nothing is past due. You might even feel a small sense of relief each month when everything clears. But after a while, something discouraging sets in. You look at your balances and realize they haven’t moved much at all. You’ve sent hundreds—or thousands—of dollars out, yet the debt still feels just as heavy. That’s because minimum payments are designed to keep you comfortable, not free . They stretch debt over long periods of time and quietly drain your income through interest. The longer this goes on, the more normal it starts to feel—and the harder it is to imagine life without payments. 👉 One Clear Step to Take List all your debts from smallest balance to largest and focus all extra money on the smallest one this month. Don’t worry about doing everything at once. One focused win builds momentum and changes how debt feels. 2. Using Credit Cards as an Emergency Plan Most people don’t plan to rely on credit cards. They tell themselves, “We’ll handle it if something comes up.” Then life happens. A car repair. A medical bill. A home expense you didn’t see coming. And the credit card fills the gap. Over time, emergencies don’t feel like emergencies anymore—they feel expected. And debt slowly becomes the default solution instead of a temporary tool. The real problem isn’t that emergencies happen. The problem is that without any margin, every surprise pushes you deeper into debt and further away from peace. 👉 One Clear Step to Take Open a savings account labeled “Emergency Fund” and automate a small transfer. Even $25–$50 per paycheck starts creating breathing room and breaks the habit of relying on credit. 3. Avoiding a Written Budget (or Only Budgeting in Your Head) Many people believe they have a budget because they’re aware of their bills and roughly know what they spend. But awareness isn’t the same as intention. Without a written plan, money tends to drift toward convenience, emotion, and urgency. This is where a lot of people get stuck. They may have a budget written down somewhere, but they’re not actually tracking their transactions. Or they’re tracking every transaction, but without the guardrails of a budget, they still feel confused and frustrated. A budget without tracking is almost useless—you don’t know if you’re staying on track. But tracking without a budget isn’t very helpful either, because there are no boundaries telling your money where it should go. The two are designed to work together. This usually shows up as surprise frustration at the end of the month: “Where did our money go?” “We make decent money—why is nothing left?” Without a budget and tracking, you’re reacting to money instead of directing it. And reaction mode almost always leads to stress and stagnation. 👉 One Clear Step to Take Before the month starts, write down your budget, then commit to tracking your transactions weekly. Even a 10-minute check-in once a week will help you stay aligned and make small adjustments before things get off track. 4. Letting Lifestyle Creep Steal Progress Lifestyle creep usually doesn’t feel like a mistake at all. As income increases, spending slowly follows. A nicer vehicle. More eating out. More convenience purchases. It feels earned—and in many ways, it is. The problem is when lifestyle increases before debt is gone. Progress slows. Margin disappears. And despite making more money, freedom still feels out of reach. I’ve seen this trap delay debt freedom by years—not because people were careless, but because spending grew quietly and intentionally was never revisited. 👉 One Clear Step to Take Pick one spending category this month to intentionally dial back and redirect that money toward debt. This isn’t about punishment—it’s about choosing long-term freedom over short-term comfort. 5. Losing Sight of Why You Want to Be Debt-Free This is the most dangerous mistake because it’s invisible. People start strong. They’re motivated. They’re hopeful. But over time, progress feels slow, life gets busy, and the emotional weight of debt becomes background noise. When the “why” fades, discipline fades with it. Sacrifices feel harder. Motivation weakens. And debt becomes something you tolerate instead of actively fight. Debt freedom isn’t just about numbers—it’s about peace, clarity, and the ability to live with purpose. 👉 One Clear Step to Take Write down why you want to be debt-free and put it somewhere visible. Less stress. Better conversations at home. The ability to give and plan. That vision fuels consistency. You Don’t Have to Stay Stuck in This Cycle Debt doesn’t just affect your bank account—it affects your stress, your marriage, your sleep, and your peace of mind. And most people stay stuck not because they can’t change, but because they don’t have a clear plan. If you want help creating a plan that actually fits your life, I’d love to walk with you.